亲情

坐在麦当劳，开始写好中文书稿，中间几次被打断，第一次是与母亲通电话，恰好，小姨也在我家，问了表弟儿子果果的情况。 果果一生下来就患有先天性的罕见病，肌眼脑综合征（MEB），此病没有任何医学手段可医治，病人的肌肉萎缩，视力不清，脑瘫，目前国外论文记录最长的寿命也只有16岁。 表弟生下这个儿子，看遍了国内各大医院，确诊为 MEB，没有医疗的希望。但是，小姨和表弟一家都深爱着这个孩子。 ...

阳阳是我的侄儿，今年六岁。去年春节在家还看他满地打滚玩耍，今年十月份回老家，就看见他规规矩矩地放学，横平竖直地写作业，惊叹从顽童到学童的转变就在一瞬之间。 阳阳在的小学有一条校规，学生必须佩戴校徽。老师在课堂上说，不戴校徽不准进校门。他牢牢记住这条规定，每天晚上临睡前脱下衣服，都要摸到胸口冰冷的校徽，才放心睡去。 ...

身为父母之幸福的最初根源有两个方面。一方面，存在着一种自身肉体的某部分获得了新的外表的感觉，这使生命能在其他部分灭亡之后延续下去，而这部分又反过来以相同的方式赋予其部分肉体以另一种外表，这样就确保了血脉的永生。另一方面是权力欲和柔情心的混合使新的生命无依无靠，于是父母便有满足他的需求的冲动，这种冲动不仅满足了父母对孩子的本能的爱，也满足了父母的权力欲。 罗素谈家庭教育石头新浪博客 ...

Hey, Dear Jude: You have been waiting for something for many years. But you were disappointed every time when you opened your door. It was the postman, it was the wind, it was nothing at all. You have departed the time of innocence, the time of simplicities, when good is good, truth is truth, and your question always has an answer. Now, everything is different. You have been pushed into a stage, on which you have to act yourself, directed and watched by the audience, whose requirements you may feel powerless to reject. We are living in a changing era; you are in a transitional age. Traditional values lose its favor; other values takes its position. Peace and simplicity is on the way out; sound and fury is on the way in. Many books has been written, few are worth of reading. Every morning when you wake up, you are facing so many choices, so much temptation, let alone conflicts and confusion which makes the circumstance more complicated. ...

点水写到：“送孩子报到的，若不是全家出动，那多半来的是父亲。我一直想不通，他们为何如此相似：脸庞黝黑，沉默不语，坚持要替儿女扛那最大最重的行李。临别时寥寥几句交待，然后点上一支烟，转身离去。 ” 寥寥数语，牵动肝肠。我眼前出现了许多久远的画面。 首先是我的父亲。那一年，我考上大学，他还是教育局一名小职员。父子俩站了60多个小时的火车，到达那座凤凰花灿若明霞的城市。他身上仅剩下160元钱，他先拿出120元给我买了一台红灯牌录音机，临走又留下30元给我做零还钱。而他只身带着不到5元钱，站了60个小时返回山东。一路上以花生和胡萝卜充饥，真难以想象，这一路他是怎么熬下来的。第二年，他被评为先进工作者得了100元的奖金，立即忙不迭地寄给儿子，全然不知他的儿子，一顿酒就会花去20几元。 ...