SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates

SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates 长见识了,原来英国的征婚启事是这样写的。对未来另一半的要求,不写身高,长相,职业,收入,而是性格! What I’m looking for Oh dear, I’m cracking now… I guess I’d really just like to meet a man who is unapologetically silly; who never orders Vanilla, thinks Magnolia is ‘safe’ or insists we print a map; a man for whom I’d pull an all-nighter on a school night; who walks or cycles instead of getting the tube; who will leave me utterly speechless and wanting to know more; who drinks proper beer and thinks he can surf, is able to order wine in a restaurant and can teach me to ski better, eats all major food groups, has more than one pair of shoes and climbs mountains; who thinks Foster the People are the best thing to happen in 2011 so far, but will make me leave work early on a Monday to see an unknown band in Brixton; who manages to get us two places for a new Supper Club on a Tuesday; who doesn’t watch TV at normal times but will spend Sunday in bed with iPlayer; who suggests camping in Cornwall one weekend and will dance with me til our feet bleed the next weekend; is my biggest critic and my greatest fan (and who I respect for both); agrees that cats are vain and fickle but would secretly love to get one, call it Carlos and try to make it love us rather than the branded offal we feed it; looks irresistible in a suit (but isn’t wearing one in his profile picture); makes my married best friend wish she was sleeping with him and my mum wish he was her son; unafraid to kiss me to make me shut up and yet can make me talk when I’ve clammed up; someone who just gets it, and gets me; and when I’m with him I forget to check my blackberry or my moral code. ...

2011-10-03 · 王佩

SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates

SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates 长见识了,原来英国的征婚启事是这样写的。对未来另一半的要求,不写身高,长相,职业,收入,而是性格! What I’m looking for Oh dear, I’m cracking now… I guess I’d really just like to meet a man who is unapologetically silly; who never orders Vanilla, thinks Magnolia is ‘safe’ or insists we print a map; a man for whom I’d pull an all-nighter on a school night; who walks or cycles instead of getting the tube; who will leave me utterly speechless and wanting to know more; who drinks proper beer and thinks he can surf, is able to order wine in a restaurant and can teach me to ski better, eats all major food groups, has more than one pair of shoes and climbs mountains; who thinks Foster the People are the best thing to happen in 2011 so far, but will make me leave work early on a Monday to see an unknown band in Brixton; who manages to get us two places for a new Supper Club on a Tuesday; who doesn’t watch TV at normal times but will spend Sunday in bed with iPlayer; who suggests camping in Cornwall one weekend and will dance with me til our feet bleed the next weekend; is my biggest critic and my greatest fan (and who I respect for both); agrees that cats are vain and fickle but would secretly love to get one, call it Carlos and try to make it love us rather than the branded offal we feed it; looks irresistible in a suit (but isn’t wearing one in his profile picture); makes my married best friend wish she was sleeping with him and my mum wish he was her son; unafraid to kiss me to make me shut up and yet can make me talk when I’ve clammed up; someone who just gets it, and gets me; and when I’m with him I forget to check my blackberry or my moral code. ...

2011-10-02 · 王佩

婚姻咨询与心理治疗

我一直有个疑问,今天斗胆提出。为什么贵国没有婚姻咨询专家?夫妻间出现问题求告无门,最终只能内斗或群斗(假如双方向各自父母投诉的话),以至于婚姻加速破产。 国内虽有婚姻咨询专家,年轻夫妇们也不敢轻易尝试吧?收费的小刀锋利不说,他给咨询几次,新娘跟他跑了。倒也是成就了一段美满姻缘,好在,整个社会的婚姻福利没有降低。 ...

2009-11-27 · 王佩

《约会必杀技》批判

【按】近年来,随着上网男女光棍的增多,泡妞成为一门显学。有无数好为人师的家伙,晚上钻进冰凉的被窝之后,总会想出几条泡妞绝技,垂涎三尺地睡去。早晨一上班,就忙不迭地发到网络上,以教育那些三青子、愣小子。还有一些人,翻译一些老外的泡妞心得,好像取到了九阴真经一样。殊不知,老外最没心机,他们那两把刷子,到了中国只能让小姑娘们,做基础反面教材。如果真的按照这套路数去练,你的同学会抱着孙子出席你的结婚典礼,名义是给你道喜,其实是对方人生成果的路演。 ...

2009-04-07 · 王佩

不再被爱(一篇哲学论文)

不再被爱是一件糟糕、荒谬、甚至可怕的事。以前爱你的那个个体突然转了方向,温柔的话语、甜蜜的誓言、相互依赖的感觉突然消失。这不仅象黑夜,更象是漫长的日全食–天地一片黑暗,万物一片惊恐。 对于失去了他人之爱的这个人来说,只有一个问题萦绕在他/她的脑际: 那个人为什么不再爱我了? 答案潜伏在过去每一个事件里,也许是一句话,一件琐碎的小事,一个临机的念头,一个重大的变故,使得那爱的施与者改变了意志。 ...

2007-08-31 · 王佩

一夜前卫

老冯,色而不淫,他总是自诩婚内初夜献给了妻子,婚外初夜献给了初恋。去年,集团派他到美国考察,他在免税商店里买回两盒杜蕾斯的最新产品, 一盒送给了我,还有一盒留作自用。说实在地,新品还真好用,试用报告可以再写一打博客了。它有个名字叫 “Avanti”,意大利语“前卫”的意思。 约摸过了半年时间,半夜接到老冯的电话。他说,哥们,我送你的杜蕾斯,还有吗?我说,靠,我一个礼拜就用光了。 ...

2006-02-12 · 王佩