杭州宏都宾馆，是一家3星级宾馆，这家宾馆，我曾在杭州旅行攻略中推荐过。它距离西湖10分钟步行路程，宾馆去年刚刚重新装修过，比什么汉庭如家之类的强多了，尽管价格贵不了多少。话说，2012情人节这一天，宾馆客房里发生了一桩命案。宾馆真是躺着中枪，委实冤枉。 2月13日这一天下午，宾馆来了一对男女，要开钟点房。男的20岁，女的17岁，两人挺老实的，都拿出身份证登记。本来休息4个小时，但是大概9点多，男孩下来补交了押金，又急匆匆上楼了。 14日中午，宾馆接到电话，说XXX房间有人自杀。服务员和保安跑过去，房间是反锁的，找来工人师傅，把门撞开。只见里面躺着一男一女，拉着手，男的脖子上鲜血直流，女的躺着一动不动。先来了120，医生看了一下情况，说女的心跳呼吸早没了，先救男的。后来派出所民警，分局刑大，都来了。有经验的刑警一看现场，立即问，这男的送医院，警察有跟着吗？答：没有。“赶紧的，派两个人24小时看住他。”法医鉴定后发现，这女孩13日22点左右已经死了。死因是受外力造成的窒息。到了次日商务，男的才摔破玻璃杯，用玻璃划破颈部。算起来，此时女孩已经死去12小时了。 ...
SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates 长见识了，原来英国的征婚启事是这样写的。对未来另一半的要求，不写身高，长相，职业，收入，而是性格！ What I’m looking for Oh dear, I’m cracking now… I guess I’d really just like to meet a man who is unapologetically silly; who never orders Vanilla, thinks Magnolia is ‘safe’ or insists we print a map; a man for whom I’d pull an all-nighter on a school night; who walks or cycles instead of getting the tube; who will leave me utterly speechless and wanting to know more; who drinks proper beer and thinks he can surf, is able to order wine in a restaurant and can teach me to ski better, eats all major food groups, has more than one pair of shoes and climbs mountains; who thinks Foster the People are the best thing to happen in 2011 so far, but will make me leave work early on a Monday to see an unknown band in Brixton; who manages to get us two places for a new Supper Club on a Tuesday; who doesn’t watch TV at normal times but will spend Sunday in bed with iPlayer; who suggests camping in Cornwall one weekend and will dance with me til our feet bleed the next weekend; is my biggest critic and my greatest fan (and who I respect for both); agrees that cats are vain and fickle but would secretly love to get one, call it Carlos and try to make it love us rather than the branded offal we feed it; looks irresistible in a suit (but isn’t wearing one in his profile picture); makes my married best friend wish she was sleeping with him and my mum wish he was her son; unafraid to kiss me to make me shut up and yet can make me talk when I’ve clammed up; someone who just gets it, and gets me; and when I’m with him I forget to check my blackberry or my moral code. ...
SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates 长见识了，原来英国的征婚启事是这样写的。对未来另一半的要求，不写身高，长相，职业，收入，而是性格！ What I’m looking for Oh dear, I’m cracking now… I guess I’d really just like to meet a man who is unapologetically silly; who never orders Vanilla, thinks Magnolia is ‘safe’ or insists we print a map; a man for whom I’d pull an all-nighter on a school night; who walks or cycles instead of getting the tube; who will leave me utterly speechless and wanting to know more; who drinks proper beer and thinks he can surf, is able to order wine in a restaurant and can teach me to ski better, eats all major food groups, has more than one pair of shoes and climbs mountains; who thinks Foster the People are the best thing to happen in 2011 so far, but will make me leave work early on a Monday to see an unknown band in Brixton; who manages to get us two places for a new Supper Club on a Tuesday; who doesn’t watch TV at normal times but will spend Sunday in bed with iPlayer; who suggests camping in Cornwall one weekend and will dance with me til our feet bleed the next weekend; is my biggest critic and my greatest fan (and who I respect for both); agrees that cats are vain and fickle but would secretly love to get one, call it Carlos and try to make it love us rather than the branded offal we feed it; looks irresistible in a suit (but isn’t wearing one in his profile picture); makes my married best friend wish she was sleeping with him and my mum wish he was her son; unafraid to kiss me to make me shut up and yet can make me talk when I’ve clammed up; someone who just gets it, and gets me; and when I’m with him I forget to check my blackberry or my moral code. ...
我一直有个疑问，今天斗胆提出。为什么贵国没有婚姻咨询专家？夫妻间出现问题求告无门，最终只能内斗或群斗（假如双方向各自父母投诉的话），以至于婚姻加速破产。 国内虽有婚姻咨询专家，年轻夫妇们也不敢轻易尝试吧？收费的小刀锋利不说，他给咨询几次，新娘跟他跑了。倒也是成就了一段美满姻缘，好在，整个社会的婚姻福利没有降低。 ...
《相亲记》发布之后，创造了我博客回复最高纪录。有的帮我出主意，有的帮我找问题，一位“双喜同学”还帮我算了一笔明细账，真是让我感激不尽。 双喜同学说– **如果适合你的人年龄应在28-35之间的，杭州目前这类的女青年约38万； 但可能要除去在桐庐什么的偏远地区10万左右，还剩28万； 这里面人家也有早结了婚的，假设在20%，那就剩下22万多； ...
一个人如果35岁后还不结婚，在他的家乡，就会发生这样的事。刚开始，大家都会问他的父母“抱孙子还是抱孙女了？”，后来只有亲朋好友才问“这小子到底什么时候结婚”，再后来，就像战场上突然的无线电静默，再也没有人问了，大家对他的父母道路以目。 我想说，单身真的不是故意的。我也努力过，10多年以前，我就开始相亲了。我记得第一次介绍人把我领到一个姑娘面前，对我们说，你们聊聊吧，我还有点事。然后，我开始跟那姑娘一起在马路上走。双方都不知道该说什么。 ...
【按】近年来，随着上网男女光棍的增多，泡妞成为一门显学。有无数好为人师的家伙，晚上钻进冰凉的被窝之后，总会想出几条泡妞绝技，垂涎三尺地睡去。早晨一上班，就忙不迭地发到网络上，以教育那些三青子、愣小子。还有一些人，翻译一些老外的泡妞心得，好像取到了九阴真经一样。殊不知，老外最没心机，他们那两把刷子，到了中国只能让小姑娘们，做基础反面教材。如果真的按照这套路数去练，你的同学会抱着孙子出席你的结婚典礼，名义是给你道喜，其实是对方人生成果的路演。 ...