SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates

SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates 长见识了,原来英国的征婚启事是这样写的。对未来另一半的要求,不写身高,长相,职业,收入,而是性格! What I’m looking for Oh dear, I’m cracking now… I guess I’d really just like to meet a man who is unapologetically silly; who never orders Vanilla, thinks Magnolia is ‘safe’ or insists we print a map; a man for whom I’d pull an all-nighter on a school night; who walks or cycles instead of getting the tube; who will leave me utterly speechless and wanting to know more; who drinks proper beer and thinks he can surf, is able to order wine in a restaurant and can teach me to ski better, eats all major food groups, has more than one pair of shoes and climbs mountains; who thinks Foster the People are the best thing to happen in 2011 so far, but will make me leave work early on a Monday to see an unknown band in Brixton; who manages to get us two places for a new Supper Club on a Tuesday; who doesn’t watch TV at normal times but will spend Sunday in bed with iPlayer; who suggests camping in Cornwall one weekend and will dance with me til our feet bleed the next weekend; is my biggest critic and my greatest fan (and who I respect for both); agrees that cats are vain and fickle but would secretly love to get one, call it Carlos and try to make it love us rather than the branded offal we feed it; looks irresistible in a suit (but isn’t wearing one in his profile picture); makes my married best friend wish she was sleeping with him and my mum wish he was her son; unafraid to kiss me to make me shut up and yet can make me talk when I’ve clammed up; someone who just gets it, and gets me; and when I’m with him I forget to check my blackberry or my moral code. ...

2011-10-03 · 王佩

SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates

SaladHands30 - Guardian Soulmates 长见识了,原来英国的征婚启事是这样写的。对未来另一半的要求,不写身高,长相,职业,收入,而是性格! What I’m looking for Oh dear, I’m cracking now… I guess I’d really just like to meet a man who is unapologetically silly; who never orders Vanilla, thinks Magnolia is ‘safe’ or insists we print a map; a man for whom I’d pull an all-nighter on a school night; who walks or cycles instead of getting the tube; who will leave me utterly speechless and wanting to know more; who drinks proper beer and thinks he can surf, is able to order wine in a restaurant and can teach me to ski better, eats all major food groups, has more than one pair of shoes and climbs mountains; who thinks Foster the People are the best thing to happen in 2011 so far, but will make me leave work early on a Monday to see an unknown band in Brixton; who manages to get us two places for a new Supper Club on a Tuesday; who doesn’t watch TV at normal times but will spend Sunday in bed with iPlayer; who suggests camping in Cornwall one weekend and will dance with me til our feet bleed the next weekend; is my biggest critic and my greatest fan (and who I respect for both); agrees that cats are vain and fickle but would secretly love to get one, call it Carlos and try to make it love us rather than the branded offal we feed it; looks irresistible in a suit (but isn’t wearing one in his profile picture); makes my married best friend wish she was sleeping with him and my mum wish he was her son; unafraid to kiss me to make me shut up and yet can make me talk when I’ve clammed up; someone who just gets it, and gets me; and when I’m with him I forget to check my blackberry or my moral code. ...

2011-10-02 · 王佩

感谢你们目光如烛火

9月9日,顶着烈日,我俩来到杭州市下城区行政服务中心。钢印盖下去的一刹那,我心一颤,一个快乐单身汉的时代彻底结束了。拉着女友进去,领着老婆出来。当我们携手走在运河岸边,都有一种不真实的感觉。 9月11日,123诗社同伙,老朋友纳纳写了一篇《王佩要婚》。 9月18日,冯一刀在博客里给我赠言说“婚姻是孤独的终极杀手”。 9月19日,风华发了一篇结婚祝福。 9月23日,月小刀的博客上出现了一篇《写给桃桃的一封信》。 ...

2010-09-28 · 王佩

与老婆有关

做早饭把手烫了一下,因为只有我一个人吃,无法让老婆内疚。白受伤了。 老婆在必胜客,看到店员正在跟老外顾客解释,皮萨要等15分钟。由于中国人发fifteen和fifty两个音容易混,双方僵持在那里,来来回回说不明白。老婆看不过去了,对着老外,伸出一只手,翻了两下说:five,five,five。困局顿解。 老婆搬办公室,找了两个IT技术人员帮忙。出门的时候,行政问出门单怎么写。老婆说:“就写,电脑一台,杂物两箱,废物三个,好了。” ...

2010-09-28 · 王佩

婚姻咨询与心理治疗

我一直有个疑问,今天斗胆提出。为什么贵国没有婚姻咨询专家?夫妻间出现问题求告无门,最终只能内斗或群斗(假如双方向各自父母投诉的话),以至于婚姻加速破产。 国内虽有婚姻咨询专家,年轻夫妇们也不敢轻易尝试吧?收费的小刀锋利不说,他给咨询几次,新娘跟他跑了。倒也是成就了一段美满姻缘,好在,整个社会的婚姻福利没有降低。 ...

2009-11-27 · 王佩

这账算得真明白

《相亲记》发布之后,创造了我博客回复最高纪录。有的帮我出主意,有的帮我找问题,一位“双喜同学”还帮我算了一笔明细账,真是让我感激不尽。 双喜同学说– **如果适合你的人年龄应在28-35之间的,杭州目前这类的女青年约38万; 但可能要除去在桐庐什么的偏远地区10万左右,还剩28万; 这里面人家也有早结了婚的,假设在20%,那就剩下22万多; ...

2009-10-25 · 王佩

相亲记

一个人如果35岁后还不结婚,在他的家乡,就会发生这样的事。刚开始,大家都会问他的父母“抱孙子还是抱孙女了?”,后来只有亲朋好友才问“这小子到底什么时候结婚”,再后来,就像战场上突然的无线电静默,再也没有人问了,大家对他的父母道路以目。 我想说,单身真的不是故意的。我也努力过,10多年以前,我就开始相亲了。我记得第一次介绍人把我领到一个姑娘面前,对我们说,你们聊聊吧,我还有点事。然后,我开始跟那姑娘一起在马路上走。双方都不知道该说什么。 ...

2009-10-22 · 王佩